As parents, it's important to recognize when your children might need extra support emotionally, spiritually and mentally. This starts with knowing there is a problem that needs to be addressed, which can be a delicate balance. You want to do what you can to help your child without causing them to withdraw further. Here are five signs to watch for if you’re concerned about your child’s mental health.
Withdrawing from Life
People of all ages who struggle with their mental health often don’t want to bring others down with them. This could lead to choosing not to participate in life the same way they once did. If you notice your child withdrawing from friends, family or social activities, it could be a sign that something is wrong. Consider gently asking why they are not as engaged as they were in the past. They might not know why, and that’s OK—they’ll still be glad you asked, and the conversation will get them thinking.
Sudden Mood Changes
Children can be moody sometimes, especially as they go through puberty. However, their mood shifts generally aren’t abrupt or long-lasting unless they’re struggling. Look out for sudden changes in mood, such as frequent and uncharacteristic sadness, irritability or anger. These could be signs that something has happened to cause emotional distress. Talking to your child about these changes might help them process what is going on and move through it.
Loss of Interest
Sometimes, children simply move on from one interest to the next. However, a general loss of interest in things that brought your child joy in the past could indicate that they are struggling. Talk to your child about what they currently enjoy, and see if it’s time for a change in scenery or a deeper discussion about their mental health.
Eating or Sleeping Difficulties
The phrase “keeping you up at night” can be quite literal for children navigating stressful situations. If you notice a major change in your child’s sleeping or eating habits, it may be time to have a talk. Sleeping too much or struggling with insomnia could be signs that your child is having trouble getting the rest they need. Eating too much or too little is also a reliable indicator of high stress. See if you can help your child get back on track to healthier, happier days.
Calling Out for Help
Cries for help often aren’t as direct as we’d like them to be. Your child may “joke” about feeling helpless or worthless. They may talk about giving up entirely after something that seems minor to you. If this kind of negativity becomes a habit for your child, consider addressing it. Ask why they feel that way and how you can help. They might not be open to it at first, but they could come around once they know that you’ve noticed and are willing to do what you can.
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