While most children are naturally inquisitive, critical thinking is a skill that most develop over time. When your child asks you a series of questions, you may be tempted to pass them onto Google. However, in some cases, taking a moment to ask some questions back can get them thinking and put them in problem-solving mode. Here are a few ways you can help your child develop critical thinking skills.
Encourage open-ended questions
When a child has a question, they often expect one simple answer. To encourage them to start thinking critically, consider reframing the questions they ask to be more open-ended. For example, instead of asking a closed question like “Do you like pineapples on pizza?” ask a question like “What do you think about pineapples on pizza?”
Engage in imaginative play
Choose age-appropriate ways to incorporate more imagination into your child’s routine. Whether it’s coming up with backstories for their dolls or playing board games that involve improvisation, you can always incorporate more critical thinking into play. This will encourage your child to think critically and have fun in the process!
Promote problem solving
You may want to fix all your child’s problems for them. However, it’s important for your child to branch out and learn to come up with their own solutions. When they ask you about a situation they’re dealing with, talk through it, and allow them to come to their own conclusion. If that conclusion needs refining, you can add your input after the fact.
Lead by example
Show your child what critical thinking looks like. Talk to them about problems you’re having in your life and how you were able to solve them. If they want advice that’s more relevant to them, consider discussing ways you resolved conflicts when you were younger.
Encourage categorization
One important aspect of critical thinking is organizing your thoughts. Similar to naming emotions to tackle hard feelings, categorizing thoughts can help your child think things through. Discuss how thoughts relate to each other, and encourage them to stay on track by categorizing thoughts into the respective areas of their lives.
Ask probing questions
Some people don’t like being questioned, but it’s an important part of life. If your child becomes stubborn about an assumption they’ve made, talk through it. Ask questions like “Why do you feel that way?” or “Did someone tell you that?” This can help them think more deeply before drawing a conclusion, which is at the core of critical thinking.
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