The internet can be a great resource for people of all ages, but it comes with inherent risks. Children and the elderly are especially vulnerable to online attacks, whether they’re by scammers, cyberbullies or others who are up to no good. You may be afraid to allow your child to explore the educational and fun side of the internet because of its dark side. However, as long as you work to keep your child safe, being online can be a positive experience for them. Here are a few ways you can protect your child when they use the internet.
Learn About the Risks
To keep your child safe, you need to know about the potential risks involved with being online. The top three threats for children are cyberbullying, online predators and exposure to inappropriate content. Keeping your child safe from these and other online safety risks can feel overwhelming. Here are a few tips on how to get started:
Tell your child never to share personal information, especially phone numbers, addresses, school names and photos. Their privacy is valuable, especially online.
Don’t let your child use your credit card. If they want something that can only be bought online, buy it for them after doing your own research, confirming that it’s from a reputable source.
Adjust privacy settings on your child’s profiles. This is going to be one of the best ways to protect them from unwanted online attention. Make sure they don’t accept friend requests from strangers.
Get Involved
Set guidelines with your child regarding internet use and screen time. Help them understand that it’s important for them to spend time away from the computer and with others. Advise them on safety tips, like not responding to threatening messages and letting a trusted adult know if any communications are scary or hurt their feelings. If they talk about meeting online friends, don’t let them do so without being there with them — and make sure it’s in a highly visible public place. Spend time online together to teach your child appropriate online behavior. Knowing how to behave online is essential to staying safe online.
Check In
Ask your child what they’re doing when they spend a lot of time online. If the answer isn’t straightforward, it may be time to have a deeper conversation about whether what they’re doing online is appropriate. If they seem upset after being online, see if you can find out why. Cyberbullying is a common problem among children and teens, and in some cases, it can be worse than in-person bullying. Comments made online can always be returned to, and the bullying doesn’t stop when they leave school.
Consider Parental Controls
If it seems like your child keeps stumbling upon inappropriate content, or if they’re young enough that you want them to avoid the risk, consider setting up parental controls. Some Internet Service Providers (ISPs) have built-in controls you can use. There are also several websites and apps that can steer you in the right direction. Keep in mind that when children and teens are told not to view something, they’re going to wonder why, and they may seek it out. This is one reason why it’s important to communicate with your child and keep tabs on their online activity.
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